If you want to achieve greatness, stop asking for permission, on Flickr by billsoPHOTO I received a call this afternoon from my bank, and no, something wasn’t wrong with our accounts. I hadn’t overdrawn or not paid a bill or been the victim of identify theft. Nope, our banker called to say hello. Actually, it was more like, “Hey Annie! How are you? How are things? Everything going swimmingly?”

I’m going to get all dramatic on you and pause here for a moment.

Our banker called.
For no reason.
Other than to say Hey.

Our banker called for no other reason than to say Hey.

Holy crap.

Our Story

A couple months ago Nate and I made call after call and had meeting after meeting with mortgage folks and bankers all over the metro area looking for someone that would work with us and our real estate investment goals. When we finally found a banker who actually considered it an honor to have our business (gasp), and who was willing to be creative to help us accomplish what we wanted, we were overjoyed.

Several meetings in, we felt like we finally had a banker on our team. If I asked you, “Hey, who’s your banker?” would you be able to answer with an actual name like John Smith or Jane Jones? Or would all you’d have to answer with be something generic like Bank X or Bank Y?

Before, we were squarely in the latter camp. Even with multiple accounts, a credit card or two, personal stuff, business stuff, and many years of business. All we had to answer with was “Bank X.”

Now, we have a name. We have someone on our side. And in a matter of a few weeks he earned thousands and thousands of dollars worth of our business because of what he was willing to do.

A slight edge is all it takes

A week or so into working out the financing options for our investment property, Nate and I looked at each other and wondered why the heck we still had all of our other accounts with faceless Bank X. So we switched. Not only did Mr Bankerman receive our business for the investment moola, but opened new accounts to take care of all of our personal and business banking.

All of it. As in, every.single.account. It wasn’t millions of dollars by any stretch of the imagination, but it was more than a couple hundred bucks worth of business.

On a side note, boy oh boy was it fun to walk into Bank X one Saturday morning and request cashier’s checks for the entire balances of every single one of our accounts. Wua ha ha ha haaaa. You should have seen their faces!

It’s easy to do, it’s easy not to do

Wonderful Bankerman received all of our business in the first place because he fought for us. He treated us like we were the paying customers that we were, and made us feel important. In 8 years Bank X had never made us feel that way.

My point here is, it wasn’t difficult for him to make us feel that way. It wasn’t difficult for him to earn every penny of our banking lives. Respect, kind words, a listening ear, a care for prompt and honest communication, a couple extra minutes of his time here or there.

I’m not discounting all that he has done for us, I’m just saying that nothing he did to stand out was hard to do. The things he did were easy to do, but they were also easy not to do. (That’s a quote from someone, I think?)

A few small, extra steps. That’s all it took for him to stand leaps and bounds above the competition.

That’s all it took to earn all of our business.

Decide to

In your life, in your business, are you taking the (often teeny tiny) extra step to raise above the rest? It’s not the big steps that lead to success. It’s the tiny ones, added up over time, that make the most difference.

Give yourself the edge, it’s so much easier to do than you think.

Our banker earned our business a few months ago because of the little things. He called today as an unnecessary but welcomed and appreciated and respected follow up, and will have all of our business going forward. His call was a little thing. We chatted for what felt like a good while; I looked at the phone as I hung up and it said 4:58.

Five minutes. That’s it. Wow, is the power in the little things.

Go above and beyond

Know that you can win big with a fantastic focus on the little things.

Know that you can win big with a dedication to just taking a little step further than everyone else.

Because it’s easy to do. And because you know it’s also easy for everyone else not to do.

Don’t worry about being #1 on the bestseller list or landing the biggest-of-the-big-fish account. Focus on finishing the manuscript. Focus on ways to make a difference to the medium or small accounts that deserve your business just as much, if not more.

Apply the same thing personally, if you’d like. Don’t worry about your goal to loose 100 lbs. or run 26.2 miles or read 52 books this year. Focus on eating healthy for dinner tonight. Focus on dedicating yourself to your workout tomorrow morning. Focus on getting to chapter 2 of the first book on the list.

Little things make all the difference. And compounded over time, they make a world of difference.

Your thoughts

This was my most recent experience of being on the receiving end of the slight edge. Of someone or something making a huge difference to us by simply doing the small things no one else was willing to do.

What about you, what experiences have you had? What do you think you could do in your business or your life to take the extra step, to stand out above the crowd?

Do you think the difference between great businesses – and great people – really comes down to the little things? Share your thoughts below.

Thanks!

Oh, and…thanks. I appreciate you. I appreciate you reading, I appreciate you commenting, and I appreciate you sending me the wonderful emails you do. I want to take the extra step for you, because you’re worth it to me.

Easy to do, easy not to do.

If there’s anything I can do to help or support you, let me know. Ok, NOW you can share your thoughts below. :)

Cheers!

(P.S. Email me at annie AT anniesorensen DOT com if you’d like the name and contact information of our banker. The more people I can send his way, the better. He deserves it.)

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Book Review: The 4-Hour Body

January 24, 2011

Instead of doing a summary of what I liked and didn’t like about Tim Ferriss’ second book, The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman, I thought I would mix it up a bit. So, here we go:

The Top 44 Reasons You Will Love The 4-Hour Body

Ahem.

1. You enjoy books that can double as door stoppers.
2. Because you love moments when you realize that the book you’re reading has nothing (read: NOTHING AT ALL) to do with its title.
3. You really, really like to eat meat.
4. You’re openminded.
5. Multiple photos of Tim Ferriss without a shirt. That’s all I’m saying.
6. You’re fascinated by how your body digests, uses, and stores food.
7. You enjoy learning how to do the minimum amount of work required to get maximum results.
8. You like lentils.
9. You like black coffee, red wine, water, and diet soda, but never enjoy drinking ANY OTHER BEVERAGE ON THE FACE OF THE EARTH. Ugh.
10. You don’t like bread. Or pasta. Or chips!
11. You have an interest in making yourself a better person, inside and out.
12. You plan to have kids (or additional kids) someday.
13. You’re a continual learner.
14. You’re able to take-in details about experiments and non-scientific results with a grain of salt.
15. You enjoy visualizing the typical, hiding-out-in-Mama’s-basement geek fan of The 4-Hour Workweek now trying to attempt kettleball swings and two-legged glute activation rasies and something called the Cat Vomit Exercise.
16. You plan to live to 129 but really don’t have a, uhh, plan on how to get there.
17. You’re too fat and want to lose weight.
18. You’re too skinny and want to (healthily) gain weight.
19. You have always wanted to be Babe Ruth or Michael Phelps.
20. Bacon. You’re always looking for an excuse to eat bacon.
21. You’re ready for “real” information about diet, exercise, and nutrition from someone who’s actually put it to the test.
22. You have a bit of a conspiracy-theorist’s mind.
23. Your sex life is important to you. Ahem.
24. Naps! Scientific excuses to take them!
25. Enjoying your life and living as productive and efficient as possible is of interest to you.
26. You’re open to taking cold showers, not wearing a coat, or swimming to boost your fat loss.
27. You like appropriate, non-corny motivational quotes.
28. You are interested in personal stories of the experiments, successes, and failures of Tim Ferriss.
29. Success tidbits. Mixed in! Amongst the food and the fat!
30. Because you have always wanted something resembling a Perfect Posterior.
31. You enjoy reading detailed exercise and nutrition plans that you will immediately forget.
32. You enjoy reading detailed exercise and nutrition plans that you don’t ever really understand.
33. You love buying a book you’ll actually reference and find useful over and over again.
34. You have a secret desire to someday run a marathon.
35. Insights into the NFL. Bonus!
36. The words ‘Turkish Get Up’ intrigue you.
37. You’re an information junkie who’s turned on by the fact that there is ten times more resources online than there even is in the book.
38. You love the idea of eating anything and everything you want and still losing weight.
39. Because you think Uberhuman is fun to say. Uberhuman Uberhuman UBERHUMAN.
40. You want to be in the driver’s seat of your life by controlling your body.
41. You want to improve your inner game.
42. You’re willing to improve your outer game to do so.
43. You want to be a role model for those around you.
44. You want to be a better all-around human.

That about sums it up. Your thoughts?

Have you read Tim’s first book, The 4-Hour Workweek, that centers around lifestyle design? Have you read The 4-Hour Body? Do you plan to?


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Friday Fun

January 21, 2011

A bit ‘o fun for you on this Friday. Just because.

First, a testament to what happens when you gather half a dozen geeky, blogging, entrepreneurs in a small, Ohio town; charades. We all look ridiculous, but I hear that’s kind of the point. (Thanks to Adam & Courtney Baker of ManVsDebt.com for the compilation.)

Click here if you can’t see the video.

Second, four minutes of pure entertainment for those that either a) love network marketing or b) hate network marketing. Enjoy. (Thanks for the link, Chris.)

Click here if you can’t see the video.

Happy Friday, all! Find a good book. Have a conversation. Take a breath.

Cheers!

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Reach for the Sky, on Flickr by RedClayProject Want your business to grow this year? Making a big difference on the success of your 2011 doesn’t have to mean making big changes.

1. Throw out your New Year’s resolutions and annual goals. It’s January 19th; define five, specific mini-goals you would like to accomplish by February 15th. Then get to work.

2. Be honest with social media. In 2009 the masses were introduced to the social media world. 2010 they tested it out and tried to put every, single piece of it to use for their business. This year? Be honest about what fits best for you. If you don’t connect with Twitter, decide not to use it. If you get a lot of use out of MySpace, don’t be guilted into not using it. Be honest with yourself and the best use of your time online.

3. Send a gift to a networking contact for no reason. Write “Just because I thought you’d enjoy it” on the card. My recommendation? A book, of course.

4. Say no. You can do it, ready? Nooohhhhhhuuuuwahh. Try it again? Noohhuu. Nice! Now keep practicing.

5. Set aside ten minutes every day to learn something new. You pick the method – a non-fiction book, a blog, a trade magazine, whathaveyou. Do it either first thing in the morning or last thing at night, and discipline yourself to never skip a day.

6. Contact a local university and submit a job posting for an intern. You’ll be providing a student with valuable work experience and getting a second pair of hands for free in the process.

7. Answer the question – what do I have to offer? What specific experiences and knowledge do I possess? Write down the answer (or answers) and make a plan to develop a product around it. Be it a new email series for your clients, a weekend convention for potential customers, or even an ebook for your blog audience, you’re offering something new, building relationships, and adding an additional income stream to your business.

8. Every other time before you hit Send on that tweet or Update on that status, erase what you wrote and write a sincere promotion for someone else instead.

9. In the next week, identify two of the most common processes that occur in the everyday operations of your business. Pick one of them, step back from it for a minute, take yourself out of the equation, and find a way to automate that process. Everything can be systemized, you just need to figure out how. Make it happen. Put the system into effect immediately. If you’re feeling super-productive, repeat this exercise monthly.

10. Say “thank you” to someone – anyone – every day.

11. Once a quarter, if not once a month, spend a long weekend with the most likeminded friends you have. Travel across the country if you have to. If you don’t have friends with the same goals and mindset as you do, attend a networking event every week and network your face off until you find them.

So, what do you think? What would you add to the list?

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2010, The Best Of

January 13, 2011

Happy new year!, on Flickr by alexbartok We’re a couple weeks past the end of 2010 now, and it blows my mind how fast the year came and went. 2010 was a big year. I quit my job in January, set goals for growing existing businesses and launching new ones, and went to work. All while I shared a few tidbits with you here.

I write because I love to write, I would do it even if this blog was private. However, I never imagined how many amazing entrepreneurs, readers, networkers, employees, parents, friends, and awesome-people would cross my path because of it.

I love you all and appreciate you spending small bits of your precious time with me.

Below are a few of my favorite posts from 2010, in case you missed anything. I hope everyone had an amazing year, and I wish nothing but the best in business and in life for you for the remaining 50 weeks of 2011. Make it great!

Diary From a Classroom
“He’s twenty minutes deep into a talk about general warranty deeds and fee simple title and then all of a sudden starts preaching about the business structure of Chick-fil-A. Earlier that day? A comparison between real property and personal property brought about the wonderful portrayal of fatherhood Laura Ingalls Wilder depicts in her Little House in the Prairie series. Don’t ask. None of us had any idea either.”

30 Things You Didn’t Know About Me
“14. I admire bits and pieces of Richard Branson, Oprah Winfrey, Justin Timberlake, LeBron James, Chris Brogan, Bear Grylls, Dean Karnazes, Steven Spielberg, Tim Ferriss, and Melinda Gates.
17. I’m going to live to be 129 years old. Hey-oo!”

How to Stay Motivated to Blog
“Let what’s important take the lead. When you’re letting the passion drive you, manufactured motivation takes a back seat, you see?”

Why ‘Thinking Outside the Box’ Isn’t Such a Bad Idea
“Molds. Everywhere you go it seems people want to compare you to others.”
“Molds scare me. And not just the kind that tends to grow on the walls of our dungeon-like basement.”

Why Your Why is So Important
“I’ve noticed that those who not only have a rock-solid, passionate Why of any kind move forward so much faster, but those who have a Why that has to do with others? They’re on a whole other level.”

How to Get the Most Out of Reading a Book
“The subject of the book is interesting and applicable to you right now. And you know what? If it’s applicable and interesting, it’s also entertaining. You’ve walked the fine line.”

Who said?
“People can’t change – they can’t better themselves or change directions or quit their job – that’s not normal, you say!”

You’re Too Good for That
“There’s nothing better than late-night, sunken-eyed, bursts of clarity. I was struck the other evening with how many people are paralyzed by fear. So much so that they end of doing nothing. They end up NEVER doing ANYTHING.”

Blog Comments Need a Better PR Firm
“Poor blog comments. They’re old school, unsexy, and rarely discussed.”

Book Review: Delivering Happiness
“On the surface, Delivering Happiness gets an “ehh” rating. But – and this is a BIG but, as in, MASSIVE and THEY DON’T LIE – upon closing the back cover and setting the book down, I wanted to be a better person.”

The Importance of Connecting
“Spending a weekend connecting, talking business, and taking intentional action with like-minded friends drums up a lot of powerful thoughts. Here’s one…”

Entrepreneurs Can Change the World
“Yup, it’s a bold statement. Just watch it.”

The Power of Time Freedom
“I was burning holes in my esophagus, tasting hot sauces in my husband’s honor at a cute little shop that sold nothing but the spicy stuff. And that’s when it hit me.”

And finally, the post that changed everything:

One Door Closes, Another Opens
“She didn’t know when, if ever, the entrepreneurial bug would really take hold. She didn’t know then that she’d soon be getting into trouble for awesome things like arriving too late in the morning, taking too long of a lunch break, working from home without telling anyone, and taking too much vacation. Umm, I’m pretty sure that girl should have taken the hint sooner.”

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Who are you really?

January 11, 2011

Hi, I’m Annie. Now, who are you?

Hey, I'm Annie. Now, who are you?

This month, I’m approaching my one-year anniversary of fleeing the corporate world and launching into 100% self-employment (HO.LY.BUCKETS.). As the date gets closer and closer I find myself reflecting more and more on what I’ve learned the past 12 months. The #1 thought that repeatedly keeps rising to the surface – how much I’ve learned about myself.

The obvious nature of self-employment is that you only report to yourself. You don’t have a boss, you don’t have a manager, you don’t have co-workers. No one’s telling you what to do, how to do it, or even when to do it. Because of that, you’re able to define for yourself the what, the how, and the when.

Throughout the past year I have learned that I most enjoy reading in the mornings, right after breakfast.
I have learned that I hit a productive streak around 10am.
I have learned that I hit an unproductive streak around 2pm.

I’m not actually hungry for lunch at noon, but more like 1:30 to 2pm.
I don’t naturally want to go to bed at 10pm and get up at 6, I go to bed at midnight and rise at 7:30 or 8.
Hands down my most productive work occurs in the evenings, anytime after 8pm.

I communicate best around 1pm.
I write my best around 10am and 10pm.
I dream and visualize best early in the morning.

I am a classic jeans and t-shirt type of gal. Collared shirts? Sweaters and slacks? Never touch ’em.

All of that? It’s who I am. It’s who I am really. Without the influence of limits.

In the corporate world, I arrived when I was told to arrive (Ha! Well, most of the time…), went to meetings when I was asked to go to meetings, left when I was allowed to leave, ate when I was allowed to eat. In following someone else’s schedule, I never really got to know myself.

You could say I never did because I never had the opportunity to.

However, you could also say that I never got to know myself and the way I work and live best because it never occurred to me to pay attention.

When do YOU work best?
When do YOU work not-your-best?
How do YOU learn the most?
When does it work best for YOU to eat? Sleep? Work? Read? Relax?

Pretty powerful food for thought here. Whether you’re in a position to decide and act upon every area of your life at the moment or not, I encourage you to at least give it consideration.

Get to know yourself. The past year (almost!) has allowed me to do that without assumptions or restrictions or rules or standards to follow. You might not be in a situation where you can act this way every day all day, but see if you can find a moment in your schedule to incorporate unlimiting periods of time into your day, week, or even month.

If you take away all of your limitations, what will you find out about you? You really?

What do you think – if someone else currently dictates your schedule, does it mesh with your personal schedule? When you work best, when you want to relax/eat, etc? Do you ever reflect on that? Do you think any of it even makes a difference?

P.S. It is currently 9:37pm. Maybe I should wait until 10pm before I hit Publish? :)

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Why read?

January 4, 2011

Vision:"A Book in Every Child's Hands", on Flickr by PrathamBooks

I read because…

…it makes me a better conversationalist.

…it opens my eyes to all sorts of things I never would have thought of if I hadn’t read it in a book. A novel talking about family relationships that makes me consider and mull over my own. A high-profile CEO talking about mentorship in a way I’d never thought about. Internet entrepreneurs talking about their mistakes in marketing with social media, comparing them to my own experiences. A journalist in New Orleans recounting his emotions during the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina that I never understood until then.

I read because…

…self-education is far more powerful than formal education.

…it teaches and reminds me how much I don’t know about the world, about culture, about business, and about life.

People ask me this all the time. Not directly, perhaps, but indirectly with their questions about how I can find the time to read so much, or how I can find books of such different genres so interesting, or how I know so much about books that I haven’t yet even read. It applies to blogs and magazines, too. The answers are really simple, actually.

Why do I read? Because it’s fascinating.

Truth!

And that’s all there really is to it.

Have you thought about this before? Am I weird in thinking about it this way? (Always a strong possibility. :) )

Why do you spend some of your precious minutes of the day reading books/blogs/magazines? Let me know!

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The worker bees here at [anniesorensen.com] have worked their magic and my logo is featured today – along with 25 others – on IWearYourShirt.com. Fancy, eh?

This is Angela from IWYS. And that, on the top-right, is my logo!

This is Angela from IWYS. And that, on the top-right, is my logo. Wohoo!

A huge thank you to Jason Sadler and everyone on the IWYS team. If you’re not familiar with Jason or his business, the short version is that he wears t-shirts for a living. Every day of the year a different brand or business is represented, and not only are they visible on the t-shirts of everyone on the IWYS team that day, but their message and brand is spread worldwide for 24 hours via live-stream, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, and more.

It’s, in a word, awesomeness.

Free books! From me! To you! If you’ve landed here from IWearYourShirt.com, hello! Welcome! I’m your fearless leader, the goofy one who reads books all the time and works in her hoodies from her home office relentlessly finding ways to inspire others to do bigger and better things. Nice to meet you. Please, leave a note in the comments introducing yourself, letting me know how I can help you with your journey. Mmkay?

Also, there *might* be a few things I’m giving away today to those who act fast. Check out the details on that here.

So with that, I’m off to spend the rest of my Sunday morning with my nose in a book. (Just broke the cover of Tim Ferriss’s new best-seller, The 4-Hour Body (aff link). STRONGLY recommended.)

Thank you for stopping by.
Thank you for being you.
Thank you Jason and IWYS! Cheers.

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