This is an incredibly lighthearted, casual video from an engineer at Google named Matt Cutts, but well worth the 3 minutes:

An extremely simple, unoriginal message – not unlike practically all personal development messages – yet thought-provoking, don’t you think?

What shall we try? What shall we do! Our options are endless.

This is gonna be fun.

Off to brainstorm 30 day challenges,
Your Geekiness

P.S. I have a friend 8 days deep into a really fun 30-day challenge of his own. Tell ya about it tomorrow…

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Be like this fish

August 2, 2011

ambitious fish

Ambitious. Big-thinking. Confident. GUTSY!

Because why limit yourself to only going after the tiny bait, when you have a chance at nabbing the big one?

The bigger bait is meant for the bigger fish, but that doesn’t mean hardworking, ambitious littler fish can’t take a jab at it.

You deserve to go after it. You deserve to at least try to go after it.

Don’t you think?

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On July 15th, 2010 I wrote a one-line entry in my journal. I wrote it at the top of a fresh page, and never wrote anything else below it.

I have melanoma.

A week later, I had outpatient surgery to remove a sizable chunk of skin from my stomach.

I was a lucky one.

It could have spread beyond the spot on my stomach, like to my lungs, my liver or my brain. But it hadn’t.

Yet.

I was a lucky one.
But now I am one with a story.
And a scar.

Now I am one with a healthy fear, an acute awareness.
And a need to share.

I cannot believe I’m posting this. Umm…crap. Am I posting this?

Yes. Yes, I am. I really am. Ok…

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This was me, one year ago.

Don’t let this be you, ok? Not one year from now, ten years from now, or fifty years from now.

I’ve written a bit about my experience with skin cancer before – let’s see, here and here – but I wanted to talk about it just this once more.

Be the one, okay? Be the one.

If you’re not big enough to be the one for yourself, fine. Whatever. Then be the one for someone else.

Be the one that puts on their sunscreen 30 minutes before going outside.
Too much to ask? Fine. Then be the one that puts on sunscreen at all.

Be the one that hogs the shade, that worships the shade. Shade is IN, people!

Be the one that brings extra sunscreen on vacation for the others that will forget.
Be the one that’s willing to pay $25 for the teensiest bottle at the resort gift shop when you, yourself, forget.

Be the one that organizes the spray tan party – instead of the tanning bed party.

Be the one that is confident and intelligent enough to know that no one is immune.
Even if it’s not in your family.
Even if none of your friends have had it.
Even if you don’t have fair skin.

Be the one to brag about having a fancy dermatologist that you see regularly. Call them your cosmetic dermo or your plastic surgeon or something, I don’t care. And I promise I won’t tell.

Be the one that checks your spouse or significant other.
Be the one that wears a hat. If you need a hat, I have one you could borrow.

Ok, so maybe I have thirty you could borrow. Details schmetails.

Be the one that makes it a habit.
Be the one that’s confident enough to agree that pasty is cool, dude.

Be the one that has a collection of a dozen bronzers in her makeup bag.

Be the one that yells at your friend every month for over two years to call her dermatologist and make an appointment for a check-up because you keep saying that you know you need to go but just haven’t gotten around to it and you just keep forgetting and what was the doctor’s name again I’ve already forgotten?

Ahem. Thank you, my dearest and loveliest friend. Without you, I…I…I don’t want to think about it.

Be the one that says thank you to that friend when you do finally go to see her dermatologist, find out that you have melanoma, and that you’ve caught it early.

And don’t forget to say thank you to that friend every day for the rest of your (potentially much, much longer) life.

Be the one, okay? Just…do it.

The moral of this story? WEAR SUN SCREEN.

Over and out,
The Shade Worshipper

This post brought to you by Annie’s skin cancer war wounds. And thirteen fourteen tubes of Mederma.

***To help spread the word about the dangers, and easy ways to prevent, malignant melanoma, please watch this short video.
***To learn more about melanoma and to find a dermatologist in your area, please visit The Skin Cancer Foundation at skincancer.org.

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A heck of a lot closer

July 27, 2011

I was just catching up with one of my favorite bloggers, well, I guess I’d call her a “life” blogger, The Pioneer Woman.

I was reading a post where she was discussing her food photography. I don’t particularly care about food photography, but the last two lines of the post were golden.

The quote immediately went down into my notebook.

It reminded me of myself.
And it made me think of you.

It was:

I’m nowhere near where I want to be.
But I’m a lot closer than I’d be if I hadn’t kept going.

– Ree Drummond, thepioneerwoman.com

I agree, Ree. I one-thousand percent agree.

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This is who she is

July 27, 2011

This dog reminds me of her. Stubborn. Smart. Full of attitude. And the highlight of your day:

This is her, and what happens when Mama keeps forgetting to close the door to the pantry:

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I didn’t need that baking powder anyway.

This is what she does 55 times a day when she walks into my office:

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It’s a good thing I have a body guard to watch that back yard for me while I work. It’s the size of a postage stamp and full of squirrels and robins and chipmunks. It’s, in other words, SCARY.

This is what she looks like in the tub. Sad and sudsy and pathetic:

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Those ears! I could get drunk on those ears.

This is how she sleeps:

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This is also how she sleeps:

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This, too:

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Seriously, it’s all legs and paws on this thing. Her legs are fifteen feet long, her paws are two feet wide, and they’re always all in a jumble. How she continues to untangle them every day when she gets up from that chair, I have no idea.

It gets dangerous around here, as she uses those legs like baseball bats. You know how cats use their legs and paws to swat at things? Toys, faces, the last bit of your sandwich? Well, picture that, but with fifteen feet of leg and two feet of paw attached to a fifty pound ball of muscle.

That’s her. Miss Juta. I’ve never in my life seen a dog that uses her legs more like a cat than she does. She has four sturdy baseball bats and she’s not afraid to use ’em.

Please pray for the safety of our currently-scratch-free faces. And our sandwiches.

This is what my kitchen floor looks like after taking a walk around the block in the 95 degree heat:

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A Love Letter to my Former Employer

Ah ah ahem. AHEM.

Dear Former Employer,

You stuck me in this thing for six and a half years:

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For that, I will never be the same.

I learned in that cloth-lined fortress.
I learned so much.

I learned that, in business, you can’t always be all of yourself. I got into trouble for using sarcasm with another employee. I taped a piece of paper with the words BROWN NOSE written on it to my laptop’s keyboard for a year.

You have to hold back a bit.
Professional, unfortunately, means limiting the personal.

I learned how to communicate, how to be clear and concise and convincing.
I learned how to be truthful, and how to stop apologizing for things that did not require apologies. A typical girl, I was determined not to be.

I learned how to accept instructions with a nod. No less, no more. Don’t give them anything.

I learned team dynamics, how to lead without being the titled leader, and when to sit and leave the leading to others.

I learned what matters.
And what doesn’t.

I learned how much above and beyond Above And Beyond meant. I won the awards, then felt simultaneously proud of myself and embarrassed that I hadn’t allowed someone else earn it instead. Someone who cared.

I learned what it feels like to suddenly realize that this is not what you want for the rest of your life. To be scared that you don’t care anymore. Because you want to care. Don’t you?

I learned how a simple, striking realization can change everything.
Everything, everything, everything.

I learned what dread felt like, laying in bed on Sunday nights.

I learned what guilt felt like, jumping out of my chair at 5:01pm, knowing that I didn’t give it my all that day.

I learned who I was, and who I wasn’t.

Six and a half years, I learned. Last week, I remembered.

I remembered the business suit-clad 22 year-old who, eight years ago last week, arrived for her first day an hour and fifteen minutes early. She was so excited. I remembered the feeling of closing one door and opening another from eighteen months ago, when that corporate chapter came to an end.

I learned.
I remembered.

I learn.
I remember.

Around and round.

So, my Former Employer, this is my letter to you. You know who you are. I’m not going to say thanks, but simply, I remember.

Six and a half years.
So much.
So many.

I remember.

To you,
Annie

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I ran into this poster last weekend:

photo-20So the key, then, would be realizing when you’re just “being busy.” Right?

Knowing when you’re just being busy, or you’re not on the right track, or you’re in need of halting your dig.

Right?

Stopping, every once in a while, is a good thing, you know. Taking a moment to put down the to-do list, to take a step back and reflect.

Pausing is a good thing. A coffee break pause, a weekend pause, a summer vacation pause.

Use them to relax and determine if you are on that elusive right track, whatever that might be for you. Then – and here’s the kicker – make sure, before you take the pause in the first place, that you’ll be able to deal with and take action upon the realizations that come forth while you’re doing it.

Otherwise, what’s the point? Might as well carry on digging that hole that may or may not be in the wrong place.

Being busy is seductive. But what’s even more so? Being busy with the confidence that you’re busy-ing in the right direction.

Don’t you think?

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They’re random, the items on this list. But I’m random. And random writing about writing is a good thing…right?

Right.

Here goes…

If you like to write, and you occasionally do write, I say you can call yourself a writer. You don’t have to complete a marathon to call yourself a runner or get through all the American classics to call yourself a reader, so why do you have to be paid to write or have published a book to be considered a writer?

If you love it, go for it. Give yourself the title.

I am.

Most of the moments you sit down and want to write, you won’t be able to. Most of the moments that the words come easily, you won’t be in front of a computer or near your notebook. In other words, you can’t plan your moments of productive writing.

Don’t let it concern you that you can’t turn the words on at will. Adapt. Embrace the moments that the faucet does turn on.

I “wrote” the majority of this post while out running in the 95 degree July heat. I was overheating, decided I better stop running lest I pass out, was bored with the 2+ miles I still had to walk home, started daydreaming, and out it flowed. I am now drafting/recording this post, and notes on a couple others, while collecting a pile of sweat on the dining room floor. Not really what I planned to do, but at least I’m writing.

Don’t limit yourself. One time, while recording a few things in my notebook about six months ago, I looked down and the words I’d scrawled on the page halfway resembled a poem. I was shocked. Poetry?! Seriously? I have never, ever read poetry, let alone written it. What the heck is this? I almost scribbled it out, but decided at the last minute to leave it, and I’m glad I did. Since removing the personal stigma that “I don’t do poetry,” a few dozen more poem-like pieces have come out of me. Whatever. It is what it is and I’m not going to fight it. Writing is writing, even if it’s not what you expect.

The notebook helps. The notebook is essential. If I didn’t have it, nine-tenths of the things I write, wouldn’t be. They would have been forgotten; the moment passed, the opportunity lost. I’ve found that even the simplest one or two sentences can serve as a reminder and spark the memory of the larger thought I had earlier, so I can sit down at my convenience and expand on it. The notebook is with me always. Always always always.

A notebook doesn’t have to be a notebook. A voice recorder would work fine. The memo function on your cell phone. The back of your hand. Whatever.

A physical, made-of-paper notebook has legacy, though. I think you know where my vote lies.

Just sayin’.

Writing forces me to observe the world around me in a totally different way. Perhaps because writing about something is essentially expanding on a simple thing, which requires more astute observation on, well, simple things?

(Huh?)

Embrace your inner monologue. The more I write, the more it talks. By listening to it, I feed it, and I keep it going. The more it goes the more easily I write. Around and around it goes. Stop feeding it and the writing voice is gone, along with the majority of my creativity. If it starts rambling at inopportune times, the notebook comes in handy to record the subject matter so I can satisfy it, but still get on with what I was doing in the first place.

Good writing doesn’t have to be good writing, it just has to be you. Just because it’s your best writing, doesn’t make it good. Just because the writing is good, doesn’t mean it’s your best. Or that it’s you.

And that’s ok.

The more you read, the better you’ll write. I learn something about vocabulary and grammar and style, my voice and my interests and my purpose, every time I read.

Writing rocks. I heard it from you first.

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